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October 28, 2025

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There’s a version of your teenager that still shows up for things. They come to the table when called. They answer when spoken to. They go through the motions of being present.

But something fundamental has shifted underneath. The kid who used to talk through problems now shuts down. The one who cared about grades suddenly doesn’t. Small requests turn into standoffs. You can’t trace it back to a single moment when things changed, but you know they have. Signs of teen drug use build gradually through behavioral changes that mimic other problems until the pattern becomes undeniable. What shifts first, almost always, is behavior.

Key Takeaways

  • Isolation, secrecy, and sudden shifts in attitude can appear early, often before parents connect them to substance use.
  • Emotional signs (mood instability, irritability, anxiety, etc) and physical signs (red or dilated eyes, weight changes, etc) can also appear alongside behavioral ones.
  • Recognizing warning signs of teenage drug abuse early creates space for intervention before patterns calcify.
  • Knowing what to do when you find out your child is using drugs prevents paralysis or reactions that drive them further away.

Snapshot

Behavioral changes like secrecy, withdrawal, or defiance that feel different from typical teenage resistance usually surface first. This article explains what those patterns mean, how they connect to substance use, and what kind of intervention actually makes a difference.

Behavior of Drug Users

What Are the Early Behavioral Signs of Teen Drug Use?

Drug use doesn’t make your teen suddenly transform into a stereotype overnight. However, a subtle (and sometimes more apparent) shift may occur. 

Look for departures from your teen’s normal patterns:

  • Skipped classes or incomplete assignments
  • A reversed sleep schedule. Maybe they’re up all night and sleepy during the day
  • There’s a consistent avoidance of family time
  • Guarded behavior around phone use, plans, and whereabouts
  • An abrupt change in their friend group
  • More requests for money, or small amounts going missing

Remember that a single occurrence is not a huge indicator of drug use, but repeated patterns, on the other hand, can be. 

The Behavior of Drug Users in Adolescence

The behavior of drug users, especially teenagers, reflects neurological disruption. As in, substance use disrupts brain development in areas that govern reward and decision-making, which explains many of the behavioral shifts parents observe.

Teens in this “pattern” will typically:

  • Isolate themselves to avoid questions
  • Lie automatically to maintain access
  • Explode when confronted
  • Swing between hyperactivity and complete exhaustion

Substances also create distinct behavioral fingerprints. You might notice the following depending on which category of substance they’re using:

  • Stimulants (Adderall, cocaine): Restless energy, anxiety, pressured speech, sleeplessness
  • Depressants (alcohol, benzodiazepines): Sluggish movement, unclear speech, emotional numbness
  • Marijuana: Poor memory, diminished drive, erratic moods, warped time sense
  • Opioids or sedatives: Extreme drowsiness, mental fog, emotional distance

Additional Warning Signs of Teenage Drug Abuse

Physical and emotional changes can appear alongside behavioral changes as well. Use this as a guide for monitoring changes over time, but not as a definitive checklist.

Behavioral SignsEmotional SignsPhysical Signs
Deceptive, evasive conductMood instability, irritability, emotional flatnessRed or dilated eyes
Academic decline, skipped classesAnxiety, apathy, agitationDisrupted sleep cycles
Abandonment of previous interestsDepression, social withdrawalWeight changes, poor hygiene
New peer groupParanoia, lack of motivationUnusual odors on them or their clothing
Theft of money or belongingsDisproportionate emotional reactionsShaking, coordination problems

What to Do When You Find Out Your Child Is Using Drugs

Since about 15% of high school students report having used illicit drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy, or inhalants, for example, there are plenty of parents who’ve had to face that same realization. What many of them learn (sometimes the hard way) is that reacting in quick anger or panic tends to shut the conversation down before it begins. 

Here’s How to Approach the Conversation

  • Choose calm over urgency. Find a moment when neither of you is emotionally charged. 
  • Ask rather than accuse. Try: “Some things have been concerning me. Can we talk about what’s going on?”
  • Describe actions, not identity. Point to specifics: the absences, the secrecy, the mood changes.
  • Prioritize listening. Teens share when they feel safe. Backing them into a corner ends that.
  • Abandon the sermon. You want understanding and protection, not compliance through fear.

When to Bring in Professional Help

If behavioral problems continue or worsen, involve a professional. Clinicians experienced in adolescent substance issues will be the best at differentiating casual use from dependence and identifying additional mental health concerns that may require a different treatment method. 

Standard evaluations include:

  • Clinical interviews using structured protocols
  • Toxicology testing when warranted
  • Exploration of family dynamics and emotional environment
Warning Signs of Teenage Drug Abuse

Other Commonly Asked Questions

How can I tell if my teen is using drugs or just going through normal adolescent mood swings?  

You can tell if your teen is using drugs more so by observing sustained, disruptive changes in mood, behavior, and daily routines, especially if they impact school performance or key relationships negatively.

What are some of the most commonly used drugs by teens today? 

The most commonly used drugs by today’s teens are alcohol, marijuana, and prescription medications. According to the National Center for Drug Abuse Statistics report from 2022, nearly 37% of teens have misused a drug by 12th grade, and about 49% have used alcohol at least once. Among those who report drug use in the past month, more than 80% used marijuana.

Take the Next Step Today

Treatment at The Ridge RTC helps teens rebuild healthy behavioral patterns through structured care, family involvement, and ongoing clinical support.

With residential programs in Milton, New Hampshire, and Morrill, Maine, our team combines evidence-based therapies, academic continuity, and compassionate guidance to help teens regain stability and self-awareness. Each resident receives a psychiatric evaluation upon admission, in addition to a personalized treatment plan that integrates evidence-based therapeutic techniques like CBT, DBT, family, and experiential therapy.

Learn more about our programs and contact admissions to see how you can get your teen the help they need!

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